With the rest of the kids, we planned a fun activity every day after work and cleaning was finished. Monday, we rode horses at Mima and Papa's house all afternoon. Papa hired Mason and Taylor for the day to help paint, do yard work, and saddle horses for us.
Tuesday, I took the kids to a new park in Mesa with about 6 other families in our neighborhood/ ward. Everyone had a buddy, and the park provided fun for all ages. Then a quick trip to check on the rental house, then hair cuts with all the girls, then a party for Taylor's friends at our house in the evening. He invited about 6 kids to come over and play games. 22 kids shows up. I spent about $50 on treats, candy, ice cream and toppings, chips and salsa, popcorn, etc. within an hour, all the snacks and treats were gone. The kids seemed to have a good time playing board games, visiting, jumping on the tramp, eating, basketball in the front, frisbee, etc. . .
Wednesday, we recovered our house from the teenage disaster in the morning, then went swimming with some good friends in their heated pool all afternoon and into the early evening. It was a perfect, warm but not too hot, kind of day. Then we headed home and quickly packed the car for a cabin trip and left for the mountains as soon as John got home from work.
All Thursday and Friday, John took all but Kate to the ski resort. It was the first time for EmmaClaire and Andersen, and John spent the bulk of the first day with them, teaching, coaching, helping, and encouraging them. Andersen picked it up really well and seemed to enjoy it a lot. EmmaClaire did well also but got scared and nervous a few times, which turned into drama, tears, and an "I can't" attitude. John is so loving and patient with that kind of thing. Mason and Taylor tried snow boarding both days and continue competing about who is a better snow boarder. They loved it. Abby did well also, but didn't ever want to challenge herself and improve, but enjoyed staying within her comfort zone and taking things slow. . . Reminded of me as a snow skier.
I really, really wanted to ski with the kids. But with being 7 months pregnant with #7, John wouldn't let me. Way too protective. So what did I do while everyone was having fun? I took Kate sledding a few times, put together and served snacks and lunch to all the skiers throughout the day, cleaned the cabin, and read lots of books with Kate. I kind of felt like a mommy-slave. Was it a vacation? No, not at all. Was it "fun" for me? Not in the least. But it was rewarding and fulfilling to watch my kids grasp a skill/ hobby that they'll be able to enjoy for the rest of their lives, and to see them gain confidence and enjoy their time together up on the slopes. All worth it! On our drive home, I asked John if he had "fun". He hesitated ( he didn't get to ski at his level much because of working with the kids the majority of the time). Then he said, " I'd consider it an investment in the future. You teach them now, and we'll all get to enjoy it together for years to come". So true.
We got home Saturday in time to unpack, clean up, and enjoy a neighborhood BBQ.
Fun, busy, enjoyable week.
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